BTB-ometer RECONCILIATION RECONCILIATION AFTER PAINFUL CONSEQUENCES RECONCILIATION AFTER VERY PAINFUL CONSEQUENCES AND MUCH REMORSE NO RECONCILIATION, LOSS OF SPOUSE, SOME SOCIAL FALLOUT NO RECONCILIATION, LOSS OF RESPECT OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS NO RECONCILIATION, LOSS OF ALL FAMILY AND FRIENDS PRISON, LOSS OF ASSETS, REJECTION OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS, DIED LONELY SINGLE FATALITY OR PERMANENT DISFIGUREMENT MULTIPLE FATALITIES AND/OR PERMANENT DISFIGUREMENTS